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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Navigating Independence as a Young Adult

Becoming independent as a young adult is more challenging than ever, especially after the disruptions caused by COVID-19. Many young people are struggling with motivation, financial uncertainty, and social reintegration. In this blog post, we explore the lasting effects of the pandemic on independence and provide practical tools to regain control—covering financial literacy, emotional resilience, career development, and social confidence. With insights from experts like James Clear, Lisa Damour, and Meg Jay, this guide offers actionable steps to build a self-sufficient and fulfilling future.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Liquid Chains: Daughters of Alcoholic Mothers

Alcohol consumption is a global phenomenon, with profound effects when it becomes excessive—particularly in parents. Approximately 2.3 billion people worldwide drink alcohol, according to the World Health Organization (WHO, 2018). Among them, 283 million struggle with alcohol use disorders. When a mother’s drinking crosses into addiction, it shapes her children’s lives, often irreversibly. This post explores the scope of alcohol use, its physical and neurological damage, how alcoholics behave at home and socially, and why daughters of alcoholic mothers face unique emotional and psychological burdens. Insights from Adult Children of Alcoholics by Janet Woititz and Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson frame the discussion, highlighting the stakes for these children.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Navy SEAL-Inspired Marriage

When we picture Navy SEALs, we see more than just physical prowess—we see a brotherhood forged in the crucible of high-stakes missions, where every member’s life depends on the others. Their success hinges on a unique blend of fluid leadership, unshakable trust, and relentless adaptability. What if these same principles could revolutionize a marriage? With divorce rates hovering between 40-50% in the U.S. (American Psychological Association, 2020), couples need more than romance—they need a battle-tested framework. Here’s how SEAL-inspired strategies can turn your partnership into an elite unit, capable of weathering any storm.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Managing Constipation in Parkinson's Disease: Natural Approaches and Gut Health

Constipation is a common and often early symptom of Parkinson’s disease, but emerging research suggests that gut health plays a crucial role in managing symptoms and potentially slowing disease progression. This blog explores the connection between Parkinson’s and the gut-brain axis, highlights natural strategies for relieving constipation, and discusses the potential benefits of Dr. Schulze’s Intestinal Formula #1. Learn how dietary adjustments, probiotics, and herbal remedies may support digestion and improve overall well-being for those living with Parkinson’s.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Summary of Good Energy: How Metabolic Health Unlocks Vitality and Well-Being

Are you constantly feeling drained, struggling with brain fog, or battling unpredictable energy crashes? In Good Energy, Dr. Casey Means uncovers the hidden link between metabolic health and overall well-being, revealing how modern lifestyles are sabotaging our energy at the cellular level. This blog post summarizes the key insights from her book, exploring how diet, movement, sleep, and stress impact metabolism—and what you can do to reclaim your vitality naturally. If you're looking for a science-backed roadmap to lasting health without relying on pharmaceuticals, this summary and the book are a must-read.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

She’s Just Not That Into You

If you find yourself constantly questioning whether she likes you, chances are, she doesn’t. When someone is interested, you won’t have to analyze every text, excuse their flakiness, or chase their attention. This post explores the signs that she’s just not that into you—and why walking away is the best thing you can do for yourself.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

The Emotional Toll of Having a Borderline Mother

Growing up with a mother who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be an unpredictable and emotionally exhausting experience. The constant mood swings, emotional manipulation, and fear of abandonment leave lasting imprints on a child’s self-worth, relationships, and overall well-being. This blog explores the emotional struggles, dysfunctional thought patterns, and long-term impact of being raised by a BPD mother—while offering evidence-based strategies for healing and reclaiming your life. If you’ve lived through this experience and are seeking support, you don’t have to go through it alone—contact me to begin your journey toward emotional stability and personal growth.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Infidelity in Marriage With Children: Finding Your Way to Healing

Infidelity in a marriage is devastating, and when children are involved, it adds another layer of complexity. Healing requires navigating intense emotions, rebuilding trust (or moving forward), and ensuring stability for your family. Learn how to process the betrayal, prioritize your children, and take steps toward a future rooted in strength and healing.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Growing Up with a Schizophrenic Mother

Having a parent with schizophrenia can be a deeply challenging experience for a child, shaping their worldview and development in profound ways. This blog explores the effects of growing up with a schizophrenic mother, including the emotional and psychological impact, while also highlighting how children can develop remarkable resilience, adaptability, and empathy from their experiences.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Risks of Marijuana Use

Regular marijuana use may seem harmless to some, but research shows it can have serious consequences for brain health. From impaired memory and learning to long-term changes in brain structure, frequent cannabis use is linked to cognitive decline and other significant risks. Understanding these effects can help users make informed decisions about their health.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Love, Hate, and BPD

Being in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a tumultuous and challenging experience. This article explores the complexities of such relationships, including potential overlaps with narcissism and sociopathy, the impact on children, and how to prioritize self-care. Learn how to identify red flags, understand when it’s time to leave, and why seeking professional help is essential for both your well-being and your family’s stability.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

When Friendships Fade Away

Friendships, like seasons, change over time. Some grow stronger, while others fade away—and that’s perfectly normal. This article dives into the complexities of friendship breakups, why they happen, how to navigate the emotions, and what it takes to find those rare, lifelong connections that stand the test of time. Endings often lead to new beginnings, so let’s embrace the evolution of friendship.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

The Joys and Challenges of Family Gift Giving

Gift-giving within families can be both heartwarming and stressful. In my recent feature in The Wall Street Journal, I shared insights on how to navigate this delicate balance. Check out my reflections and read the full article to make this holiday season meaningful and stress-free!

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

The Burden of Being Raised by an Alcoholic Mother

Being raised by an alcoholic mother often leaves lasting emotional wounds that follow into adulthood. This article delves into the challenges faced by adult children of alcoholics, including constant hypervigilance, inner chaos, relationship struggles, and the complexities of parenting. Discover how healing is achievable and explore practical steps to find peace and break the cycle of dysfunction.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Living with Korsakoff’s Syndrome

Understanding and managing Wernicke-Korsakoff Syndrome can be challenging, but there is hope. In this blog post, we explore the symptoms, causes, and potential for recovery with actionable strategies to improve quality of life. Learn how thiamine supplementation, lifestyle changes, and the power of neuroplasticity can make a difference. Read now to discover how to stay hopeful and proactive on the journey to healing.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Mindset of a GOAT

Becoming a GOAT (Greatest of All Time) requires more than just talent or hard work—it’s about fully embracing the mentality of greatness in every aspect of life. This means relentlessly driving forward, setting clear goals, and maintaining the discipline to pursue them no matter the obstacles. True greatness isn’t achieved through sheer effort alone; it’s about knowing when to push and when to step back, recognizing that smart recovery is just as critical as hard work.

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