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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Rewiring the Mind: The Neuroscience of Healing

Our brains are remarkably adaptable, capable of transforming even deeply ingrained patterns of thought, emotion, and behavior. Through the power of neuroplasticity, intentional practices like mindfulness, emotional regulation, and self-reflection can reshape neural pathways, fostering healthier responses and a more authentic life. This blog explores the science behind neuroplasticity and provides actionable steps to harness it for personal healing and growth.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Healthy Ways to Overcome Toxic Conditioning from Childhood

Childhood experiences shape how we see ourselves, others, and the world around us. For those who grew up in dysfunctional environments, toxic behaviors and beliefs can become deeply ingrained, often without realizing it. This blog explores how to identify these patterns and, more importantly, how to consciously choose a healthier, more authentic way of being. With actionable strategies and insights, learn how to reclaim your sense of self and create a life aligned with peace, happiness, and your true values.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

It’s Okay to Cut Off Toxic Relationships

Cutting off relationships with people who bring negativity and dysfunction into your life isn’t just okay; it’s essential for your mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. While society often emphasizes loyalty, even to toxic individuals, and the importance of keeping family and old friends close, the truth is that not all relationships are healthy or worth maintaining. Emotional distancing—especially from people who deliberately make you feel bad or bring you down—can be a powerful step toward building a life that genuinely supports your happiness and peace.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Growing Up with a Narcissistic Alcoholic Father

Having a narcissistic, alcoholic father creates a uniquely challenging environment for children, where love is conditional, validation is scarce, and trust is fragile. Research has shown that growing up with a parent who exhibits narcissistic traits and struggles with alcoholism can profoundly affect a child's emotional development, often leading to long-lasting issues with self-esteem, trust, and emotional resilience (Wolin & Wolin, 1995).

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

The Unpredictable Mind of an Addict

Understanding the behavioral patterns of individuals struggling with addiction is crucial for those who love and support them. Often, the instability and unreliability associated with addiction can cause significant emotional turmoil for family members and friends, leading them to question their own reality and emotional stability. This article delves into the psychological and emotional factors that drive addicted individuals’ unpredictable behaviors, exploring the shame and self-worth challenges they face in sobriety, the nature of addiction relapse, and the impact of these patterns on loved ones. Grounded in research, we provide insight into the mind of an addict, offering clarity and compassion for all affected.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Understanding the Overlap in Personality Disorder Symptoms and Diagnoses

Personality disorders are often categorized by specific symptoms and diagnostic criteria, yet many individuals experience overlapping traits that don’t fit neatly into a single category. This overlap complicates diagnosis and understanding, sometimes resulting in mislabeling. In this blog, we break down the major personality disorders, explore the nature of symptom crossover, and discuss the core characteristics that distinguish personality disorders, illuminating why individuals may not align perfectly with one label.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Can People with Wernicke-Korsakoff Syndrome Live Alone?

Wernicke-Korsakoff Syndrome (WKS), a neurological condition often associated with chronic alcohol abuse and thiamine deficiency, presents unique challenges in cognitive functioning and daily life. While WKS individuals face significant memory impairments, confusion, and physical symptoms, is independent living still a possibility? In this blog, we delve into what’s happening in the mind of someone with WKS, explore their inner experience, and discuss the feasibility of living alone. We’ll also examine common comorbidities and how they may further impact the individual’s capacity for independence.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

What Successful Couples Do Right

Research shows that when your relationship is thriving, every aspect of your life becomes simpler and more fulfilling. Read on to discover what you can do to strengthen your bond and live a happier life together.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

What “Confessions of a Sociopath” Reveals About Intentional Manipulation and How to Cope

“Confessions of a Sociopath” by M.E. Thomas is a raw and revealing dive into the mind of a self-aware sociopath. This groundbreaking memoir offers a rare glimpse into the calculated behaviors of someone diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder, showing that sociopaths often know exactly what they’re doing—and why. For anyone wondering how to navigate relationships with people who manipulate and control, this book provides insight into recognizing their tactics and developing strategies to protect your well-being.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

How Couples Coaching and Counseling Can Help Your Marriage

Marriage counseling and couples coaching offer powerful tools to help couples overcome challenges and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re looking to improve communication, rebuild trust after infidelity, or assess compatibility, these therapeutic approaches provide the guidance needed to navigate difficult times.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Most Common Reasons for Divorce

Divorce is a challenging and often emotionally painful decision for any couple, but certain patterns frequently emerge as primary contributors to marital breakdowns. While every relationship is unique, these common issues tend to build up gradually over time, eroding the foundation of the marriage.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Do Men or Women File For Divorce More Often?

Divorce is a difficult decision for any couple, but it’s a reality many face today. Though emotionally and financially challenging, divorce is not uncommon in modern relationships.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Commitment and Flexibility in Marriage

As life unfolds, both partners will inevitably change and grow—personally, professionally, and emotionally. A key factor in sustaining a healthy partnership is the willingness to evolve together and to be flexible in how the relationship operates over time.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Micro-Cheating: Small Acts, Big Impact

Micro-cheating is a term that refers to small, seemingly harmless acts that can blur the boundaries of fidelity. While these behaviors don’t involve physical cheating, they can still undermine trust and intimacy in a relationship. In this blog post, we'll explore what micro-cheating is, how to identify it, and why it matters in maintaining a healthy, open relationship.

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Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA Michelle Shahbazyan, MS, MA

Nurturing Emotional Strength in Children: The Power of Guidance Over Labels

Children thrive when provided with guidance rather than labels. By fostering emotional resilience, we equip them with the clarity, confidence, and strength needed for lifelong well-being. This article delves into how guiding children through their emotions helps build emotional intelligence and resilience, essential for academic success, healthy relationships, and overall productivity. Discover how avoiding labels and promoting open emotional expression can empower children to navigate life’s challenges with confidence.

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